What Do Men Look for in Their Future Partner or Wife?

All our girlfriends are getting married, pregnant, built a house, mother is asking when we will finally give birth to her grandchild... All these nerve-racking things are made even worse by the fact that there is no male partner in sight. And nobody can say we are not trying, we are trying really hard, but the last relationship is already countless years ago and all the guys we meet are not exactly mind-blowing, in fact, that could not be further from the truth. Why do all our friends seem to be lucky to have found their perfect match while we sit here and wonder why it is not happening for us? The one big question that arises is: What do men look for in their future partner/wife? 

We all know that love always goes along with a lot of luck and then there are the chemicals and the butterflies and all that …but there is more to finding a matching partner. It is a combination of many factors. More than anything men want a girl who is not too moody or bitchy, or at least not everyday. Experience told them that moody and bitchy women are seriously hard to handle and even harder to satisfy. Men do not analyze as much as women do so most of the times, they do not even know what is going on in her head. Meanwhile, she builds up thoughts inside until she explodes and surprises the poor clueless boyfriend with things she is unhappy about. A fight comes up and he has no chance, he will definitely be the loser, no matter what he says to defend himself. Men want laid-back women who are happy with themselves, content with their lives and bodies and  who don’t make a mountain out of a molehill. Guys want their lives to be as easy as possible and they only want to deal with stuff that’s actually relevant. 

Also, men are looking for a good sex partner. Sex is an essential part of each relationship for men. And it’s not them being Don Juan or them treating us like sex objects, it’s actually not their fault, it lies in their genes. And girls, let’s be honest here, isn’t a relationship with a fulfilled bedroom life the best that could happen to us? Women  should keep themselves and their men happy and satisfied. Spicing up the relationship with some new and exciting ideas is a good recipe for that.

Men also seek for a mother figure, although they wouldn’t necessarily admit that. But men can be little boys sometimes who need some proper taking care of. They love it and women love it, too. This is also a sign for men that she is likely to be a good mother for his future children. 

But what individual men are really looking for remains their secret, guess we have to rely on the chemicals and butterflies eventually.