Why Flirting Techniques Actually Work

In times where the Internet is the ultimate platform for singles to find a date or a new partner, lonely hearts do not longer have to wait for their favorite magazine to publish an article on flirt tips to conquer the heart of their beloved ones. All they have to do is type “Best Flirting Tips” or something similar into a search engine and within seconds millions of hits appear with countless pages and articles to chose from. The promising flirting techniques from self-appointed experts on offer are complemented by so-called flirting seminars and other incentives for those seeking advice.

Once all the flirting material provided is studied and internalized, and all courses and seminars are successfully completed, the newly acquired knowledge can be implemented. Therefore, the determined flirters flock to cafés, clubs and gyms to try their luck. But do the flirting techniques learned from lay people actually work?

Latest studies reveal that they do have the potential to work indeed. However, according to the research it does not matter what strategy is used, the only secret is having one. Because flirting strategies cause motivation, confidence and the determination to go out there and speak to the opposite sex. Results showed that most of the people who became a flirting target did not even care what the pick-up-line was or how the flirter behaved. It is rather important, if it clicks or not, which means a positive or negative result doesn’t depend on the flirting technique but on the person itself and weather the chosen target person likes them or not. It is really as simple as that. 

So what is the conclusion? Is this huge money making flirting advice industry a big hoax? Well some say it is, but while women share their needs and concerns with their girl friends, men find it generally harder to talk about personal matters. Therefore the internet provides an anonymous and reliable source of knowledge for them. Furthermore, reading and engaging with flirting techniques increases their self-confidence, getting the impression of becoming a womanizer, and this feeling makes them act more confident and determined. Plus, they are more likely to carry on flirting in case they were turned down after the first attempts. The logic behind it is simple: The more confidence, the more women they talk to and the higher the chance to get to know someone. What they say, how they say it and how they look or dress is not important, what counts are the chemicals between two people. 

All in all one can say that boys and men (and girls and women as well, of course) should read everything they can find about flirting, visit flirting seminars, and go out there to try their techniques. This is a great training for everyone but most of all for those who are naturally shy or who missed out on learning how to approach the opposite sex during their adolescence.